Materialized Demands in a Diplomatic Figure. The issue of demands is an ongoing cycle. If one need if fulfilled, you have others waiting in a long Que. Sometimes I just can’t understand why the beauty and other materialized things are chosen over a true and crystal clear heart. You must have witnessed many such situations across your life.
I have seen many love marriage couples. I noticed that either of one is a good looking person or other one is inferior in front of his /her partner. Of course they are together because they love and care for each other. But don’t you think so they have their so called beauty certificate given by the society? People say, “Ladki kitni gori hai, aur ladka saavla hai”, “Ladke ladki ki height mein toh kitna farak hai, jodi nai jam rahi hai”, “Are ladkiwale to bade amir hai” and so on. Why a personal life of an individual is peeped into by thousands of others including their family members.
Now talking about generation Y, they are more prone to loud and peppy world. Guys want girls who are the preachers of size zero along with confidence and beauty summed up in their closets. Girls too don’t lack behind and opt for those guys ho have some passion and determination to do something in life. But seldom anyone think about those who are beautiful from heart and not from cloths they wear. I have seen myself that even some of my male friends tend to glue their eyes on girls who wear short skirts, look hot and carry attitude. That’s natural that anything that eye finds attractive, looks to it often. But they are quite serious about their life partner they choose have to be similar sort of.
Even I received one comment at one of the family function were, my aunt’s friend had come with her son from Delhi. We all cousins were sitting together and the Delhi boy shared what he thought looking at me, my sister Deepali and also cousin Komal. He said me “you are a perfect wife material. Simple and traditional.” To be frank, I was a bit embarrassed that time. That embarrassment was not because I was not able to accept that comment, but at the age of 16, who would like to have such a comment?
Today if a girl’s waist is more than 28, then she feels she is too fat and starts dieting. I have many friends who are under pressure of their boyfriends to be sleek, beautiful and confident. Today it is like each girl and boy expects a lot from each other in terms of their wishes. And for their love, they take every pain to suit their partner’s wishes. But why we fail to understand that its persons inner beauty which maintains long term relationship. Today when asked to anyone, what type of girl or boy you want in your life? They answer like, “hmmm….I want a girl who is very beautiful but should have good nature also.” How diplomatic people can be. But seriously guys, we should know to respect good things in our life. Beauty is an added advantage, but it is not the sole thing looked in a person.
I just wanted you to ask yourself one thing, when you are attracted towards a girl or a boy, what is it that makes you look at him/her often? His/her looks or simplicity or figure or what?
I have seen many love marriage couples. I noticed that either of one is a good looking person or other one is inferior in front of his /her partner. Of course they are together because they love and care for each other. But don’t you think so they have their so called beauty certificate given by the society? People say, “Ladki kitni gori hai, aur ladka saavla hai”, “Ladke ladki ki height mein toh kitna farak hai, jodi nai jam rahi hai”, “Are ladkiwale to bade amir hai” and so on. Why a personal life of an individual is peeped into by thousands of others including their family members.
Now talking about generation Y, they are more prone to loud and peppy world. Guys want girls who are the preachers of size zero along with confidence and beauty summed up in their closets. Girls too don’t lack behind and opt for those guys ho have some passion and determination to do something in life. But seldom anyone think about those who are beautiful from heart and not from cloths they wear. I have seen myself that even some of my male friends tend to glue their eyes on girls who wear short skirts, look hot and carry attitude. That’s natural that anything that eye finds attractive, looks to it often. But they are quite serious about their life partner they choose have to be similar sort of.
Even I received one comment at one of the family function were, my aunt’s friend had come with her son from Delhi. We all cousins were sitting together and the Delhi boy shared what he thought looking at me, my sister Deepali and also cousin Komal. He said me “you are a perfect wife material. Simple and traditional.” To be frank, I was a bit embarrassed that time. That embarrassment was not because I was not able to accept that comment, but at the age of 16, who would like to have such a comment?
Today if a girl’s waist is more than 28, then she feels she is too fat and starts dieting. I have many friends who are under pressure of their boyfriends to be sleek, beautiful and confident. Today it is like each girl and boy expects a lot from each other in terms of their wishes. And for their love, they take every pain to suit their partner’s wishes. But why we fail to understand that its persons inner beauty which maintains long term relationship. Today when asked to anyone, what type of girl or boy you want in your life? They answer like, “hmmm….I want a girl who is very beautiful but should have good nature also.” How diplomatic people can be. But seriously guys, we should know to respect good things in our life. Beauty is an added advantage, but it is not the sole thing looked in a person.
I just wanted you to ask yourself one thing, when you are attracted towards a girl or a boy, what is it that makes you look at him/her often? His/her looks or simplicity or figure or what?
It totally depends on the person! Look all that has beautifully boxed up we like that! In fact we initially look at the cover right? But that is the question one should solve what should one look at internal beauty or the so called figure!!
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Yes...exactly....bt u never know yaar,I hav see many double minded people....so I was and still flustered....on this issue...
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